I love dressing her up for days out and things:) Having a baby girl is definitely the best for dressing up!
But the thing is.. Everyone has given me stuff so I don't need to buy anything. Though it's useful and I'm not ungrateful, I've only kept the second hand babygrows and vests, etc.. It's not that there's anything wrong with the clothes I'm given, it's just I want to choose what my baby wears in the day and not only have things that people have handed down to me..
I'm not ungrateful at all, and sometimes if I really love an outfit I'll keep it, it's just part of the fun of having a baby is to shop for cute little clothes to put them in!
I'll obviously keep and use day outfits which are bought as a gift, but usually second hand clothes I'll throw out..
James' sister knows I do this, and she has made me feel really guilty for it. Is it really that bad of me to want to buy things for my own daughter? I know everyone thinks they're helping when they give me stuff, and they are! .. It's just that I'd like to spend money on my little girl too, you know?
Do you think this is bad of me? Please comment :)
Nah I understand, but maybe give stuff you don't want to charity instead? I have been given waaaaay too much so I have a big bag that I am going to give to the salvation army! Some things are nice but I don't want them some things are what I would call a polyester nightmare but it does not mean that someone else wont like them! Scre what his sister thinks! Your baby your choice she should butt out
ReplyDeleteI do:) We have about 4 different charity shops in our local town so I take the stuff down to those in turn:}
ReplyDeleteThen I do not see why his sister would have a problem with it! Unless she is just that type of person! You can't like everything that is given to you & of course you want some brand spanking new stuff you bought for her yourself.
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