So I came across a forum on a website about fashion, and it was a photo of a little boy (around three or four) sporting an outfit that a young girl had designed for him. The girl openly said that the boy was her son, and that she designs most of her clothes for him.
Instead of people commenting on how good the outfit was, or how cute the boy is, everyone started judging her. It really annoyed me. The things they were saying just made no sense at all, and were completely rude.
One girl said that the young mum must be a slut because she has a child. The girl is nineteen now, she had her son at sixteen.. Apparently that means that she's easy and went around having sexy with any guy she could find..... WHAT? How is any of this aspect true? She has a son, yes. But so what? Loads of people have sex at a young age, and the age seems to be getting younger and younger.. Just because there's evidence that she had sex, that doesn't mean she's a slut. I'm pretty sure the girl who called her a slut has had sex before too. And how does having a baby make someone easy? I don't understand how people can link all this crap to having a child. So all the thirty year olds who have children are easy too, and slept with anyone? I don't think so. Ugh!
Another said it was disgusting that the girl had a child, and she 'felt really sorry for her and the baby's dad as well as the poor child.. if they know who the dad is'. How sick. I'm sorry but that's so offensive! Assuming someone doesn't know who their baby daddy is just because they're younger than others is SO horrible! And why feel sorry for them? Because they're young? The girl replied 'I wouldn't feel sorry for me or the baby's father if I were you. We're the happiest we've ever been and Logan was actually planned. The dad and I have been together since we were twelve, and Logan is not a 'poor child'. He has a family that love him.' I commented saying good on you girl! I can't believe someone could be so rude like that. Especially assuming that the baby was unplanned.
Which brings me to my next point.. Why does everyone assume that young people with babies made a big mistake and didn't use protection, etc. They assume that each baby was unplanned. Why? Age doesn't make a difference to how good a parent you are going to be, and if someone wants to be a parent then they can be! I know that my daughter was unplanned, but some people plan their children. It happens. I hate it when people assume that teens are just careless, etc, and never consider the fact that it wasn't a mistake at all getting pregnant. Ugh!
Okay, rant over. I feel a bit better now ha ha! I ranted about this to James last night. Only it wasn't as censored as this version ;)
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